When hatrid grows

And people say that there are others who oppose them and who hate them and our belief is not complete unless we annihilate others. What we don't understand is that we are becoming what we despise. I don't know if this is right or wrong but what i do know is that its belief for some and business for others. Real irony is that almost everyone believe that they are doing the right thing when they are being driven by so many factors that they don't even want to consider.

When fights go beyond the battle grounds and reach the homes in terms of the cultural values, moral beliefs and social structure; it gets very gray between good and bad. How to identify whats right and wrong? how to identify good intentions vs malicious intentions??? how to draw the line between actions and intentions????